Ah, the legal myth that refuses to retire: “When a child turns 12, they get to choose which parent they want to live with.” Sounds empowering, doesn’t it? Sadly, it’s as fictional as a TV courtroom drama where everything is solved in 42 minutes. In South African law, there’s no magical age where a child...Read More

Yes indeed, as per the South African Children’s Act, children have a right to, information and to participate in a matter that will significantly affect them. The question is often asked: At what age may a child decide where they want to stay after divorce or separation?  Well, there is no specific age.  The legislation...Read More

“The effects of abuse are devastating and far-reaching. Domestic violence speaks many languages, has many colours and lives in many different communities.” Sandra Pupatello The word violence brings to mind a picture of behaviour that is forceful, aggressive and ferocious, leaving behind noticeable, physical scars.  Yet, domestic violence is often a very, cunning occurrence leaving...Read More